For all of religion’s talk of love and peace, religion reporters continually face the question: Can the world’s religions learn to get along? Many of the world’s most violent conflicts are stoked by potent mixtures of religion and politics. In the United States, religious groups are constantly skirmishing over how religion plays out in public, from movies to the Pledge of Allegiance and prayers before city council meetings. Those conflicts are countered by two growing trends: More marriages — and families — are made up of members of different faiths, and more communities are made up of more members of different faiths. Both these trends provide new, personal avenues for understanding as well as conflict.
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The increasing number of interfaith families is a largely undocumented trend. Several organizations serve the needs of interfaith families, though mostly Jewish-Christian. Look for stories of adapted traditions or tensions in marriages, funerals, holiday celebrations, adoptions and the religious education of children.
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Religious tensions often play out in pop culture or the public square through reactions to movies, television shows, music, public holiday observances, graduation prayers and more.
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Some faith groups eagerly participate in interfaith efforts, including some Jewish groups, Sikhs and the more liberal Christian denominations.They are willing to pray to God with other faiths without excluding them (such as by praying in Jesus’ name). Others, particularly conservative Christians, shun interfaith events because they believe making their message acceptable to others requires watering down their own beliefs— that the only way to salvation or to pray is through Jesus Christ.
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Great stories can be found when faith groups are unexpectedly thrown together in a common cause (like helping hurricane victims) or when they form unlikely alliances.Conservative Christians, Mormons and Muslims agree regarding same-sex marriage, for example, but disagree on much more. Sometimes,opinions do change, offering tales of transformation. Jews, Christians and Muslims have found individual friendships can transcend differences over Middle East politics.
Mixing it up Interfaith activity among congregations has more than tripled since 2000, according to the Faith Communities Today 2005 survey.Minority faiths outside of Christianity were the most involved in interfaith activity, followed by mainline Protestant congregations. |
Resources
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Organizations for interfaith families include the Dovetail Institute for Interfaith Family Resources, based in Boston, Ky.; InterfaithFamily.com, based in Newton,Mass.; and the American Association of Interchurch Families. Some cities, such as Chicago and Washington,D.C., have regional organizations for interfaith families.
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Most denominations and religions have a person or office that monitors or oversees interfaith relations.
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Many cities have centers that intentionally bring together members of different faiths for dialogue, ranging from the Interfaith Center of New York to the Interfaith Ministries for Greater Houston.
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Look for dialogue groups that form around specific issues, such as the Jewish-Palestinian Living Room Dialogue Group in California.
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The Pluralism Project, based at Harvard University, tries to help Americans “deal with the realities of religious diversity” and has extensive Web resources on almost every faith tradition. Its founder ,Diana L. Eck, wrote A New Religious America: How a “Christian Country” Has Become the World’s Most Religiously Diverse Nation (HarperSanFrancisco).
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The Interfaith Alliance, based inWashington, D.C., is an advocacy organization on issues of democracy and religious liberty and fighting religious hatred.
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The North American Interfaith Network works to build understanding and cooperation among interfaith organizations.
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The Council for a Parliament of the World’s Religions, based in Chicago, sponsors interfaith dialogue and encourages cooperation among religious and spiritual communities and institutions.
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The United Religions Initiative, based in San Francisco, promotes interfaith cooperation and ending religiously motivated violence. It has “cooperation circles” around the globe.